Iceland Father Alexandre Rocha Loses Custody After Opposing Autistic Son’s Gender Transition – Elon Musk Weighs In
A French father living in Iceland is making headlines after claiming he lost custody of his 11-year-old autistic son for questioning medical steps toward gender transition. Alexandre Rocha says the Reykjavik District Court ruled against him in December 2025, handing sole custody to the child’s mother despite finding both parents fit.
Rocha told Fox News Digital he believes the decision stemmed from his concerns over puberty blockers and hormone therapy. He called such interventions “molesting kids” and “castrating a boy,” arguing they prioritize ideology over child welfare. He worries about long-term effects, especially given his son’s recent autism diagnosis.
Rocha described his child as influenced by video games like Minecraft and Roblox, sometimes identifying as a cat (wearing ears or a tail). He said the court and an endocrinologist dismissed autism’s role and mental health factors, focusing on the child’s expressed wishes.
The father claims he’s now excluded from medical decisions and fears hormone treatment without his knowledge. In February 2026, he learned the child’s name was legally changed to female, updating official ID.
The mother reportedly argues the child refuses visits because Rocha rejects the new identity and name. Rocha counters with an affidavit claiming a recent visit went well, with the boy appearing happy.
Rocha has launched a GoFundMe to appeal and block irreversible steps. He misses simple moments like story time and cooking, sharing 1990s movies like Jurassic Park.
The case gained traction when Elon Musk shared a Libs of TikTok post about it on X, commenting: “The woke mind virus even affects Iceland.” Musk, who has spoken about his own child’s transition, drew parallels. Rocha called it an honor and said they share a “common fight” as parents.
Court documents from December 10, 2025, indicate joint custody failed due to ongoing conflict over gender identity. The ruling prioritized the child’s preference, granting the mother sole legal custody with visitation for Rocha.
Rocha frames it as silencing dissent and controlling parents. He urges others to trust instincts and speak up.
The child’s mother could not be reached for comment. Icelandic media like Nútíminn have covered similar angles, noting neurodevelopmental factors (atypical autism and ADHD) and debates over gender dysphoria evidence.
Final Thought This case highlights deep divides on youth gender care, parental rights, and autism overlap. Rocha fights for what he sees as protection; supporters say courts safeguard the child’s autonomy. Musk’s involvement amplifies it globally.
What do you think—should parents have veto power over medical transitions for minors, or should courts prioritize the child’s stated identity? Share your view in the comments below, and pass this along if parental rights in these cases concern you.